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You will march home to an empty inbox and the desire to spend another hour browsing and writing will start to fade.
***** You might think online dating would create some much-needed “fairness” between the sexes.
After all, we each have only the 500-word text boxes and crappy jpegs and clever (not so clever) user names to show for ourselves. Maybe in this environment where we are safely sequestered behind screens, we can get past some of the lingering gender-based “rules” that dominate the “How to Catch a Man” playbooks of yore.
Maybe instead we can learn to treat each other as equal players of a very silly game that we all secretly take quite seriously. But it seems quite clear to me that we’re not there yet. I’m a feminist, sex-positive 21st century lady whose photos include me posing in a Rosie the Riveter Halloween costume.
I go to my inbox and see who wants to talk to me and then I choose to whom I’ll respond.
You will peruse profiles and find a few women who aren’t posing in a bathroom with their stomachs exposed.
In the realm of hetero courtship, tradition still reigns supreme.
The Internet could be the great democratizer, the great playing field-leveler.
You will look for things in common in their profile (they like Scrabble too! You will send them a note, carefully crafted to show interest and attention to detail. The next one will, but she spells “you” as “u” and you will let the conversation stall.
Finally, one of the cool girls writes back, and you will banter a bit, swapping favorite restaurants or concert venues.
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Basically, I act like an entitled jerk who can pull puppet strings and make Ok Cupid dance for me however I please. I don’t have to, and so I don’t make myself go through the scary exercise of asking for consideration and possibly being rejected or ignored.